How to Be a Wingman or Wingwoman

Introduction

• The role of a wingman is to make your buddy look cool and attractive.
• Think of a wingman like George Clooney in Ocean's Eleven.
• Be inclusive of both wingmen and wingwomen.

Key Steps to Being a Wingman

Step 1: Point Out the Target

• Identify the person your friend is interested in.
  • "Call your shot" like Babe Ruth.
  • Ensure the wingman knows who not to make a move on.

Step 2: Call the Play

• As a wingman, act like the head coach.
• Have a plan rather than just saying what's on your mind.
• Example plan:
  • One person approaches while the wingman waits.
  • Wingman joins when signaled.

Step 3: Introduce the Wingman

• Avoid formal introductions like "Girls, I'd like you to meet..."
• Introduce your friend to the girls informally.

Wingman Don’ts

• Don't talk about sensitive topics: Refrain from talking about your friend's anatomy.
• Don't lie: Avoid inventing false stories or exaggerations.
• This isn't third grade: Don't relay childish messages like "my friend thinks you're cute."

Important Reminders

• Engage the Friends: Make sure the friends are having a good time to avoid sabotaging the situation.
• Slow Exit: Gradually distance yourself to let your friend take over if things go well.

Final Thoughts

• If it doesn't work out, it's not the end - the speaker is not a pickup artist.
• Approach is often casual, involving humor and improvisation.

Additional Content

• Mention of a podcast "The Basement," available on YouTube, iTunes, and SoundCloud.
• Discussion of songs that evoke emotions, such as "Landslide."
• Reference to movies like "Jack Frost" and their emotional impact.