Lecture Notes: Identifying Respect in Relationships

Self-Respect as an Indicator

• Respect for Self: A woman's self-respect is a strong indicator of whether she will respect you.
  • Look for characteristics such as drinking, smoking, partying.
  • Consider where you met her and her accessibility.
• These traits reveal her self-value and how she may perceive others.

Understanding Priorities

• Busy Excuse: When a woman says she's too busy for a relationship, it often means you're not a priority.
  • No such thing as being too busy, it's about priorities.
  • "Boss University" teaches about time vs. priorities.

Motivations Behind Relationships

• Love as a Motivation: Love, affection, and related desires drive human interaction.
  • "Getting the bag" is ultimately aimed at gaining affection and love.

Identifying True Intentions

• Transactional Relationships: If a woman offers services like massage, it's likely transactional.
  • Be aware of her true intentions, which might be financial.
  • IQ and listening skills play a role; lower IQ might not disguise self-interest well.

Examples and Anecdotes

• Multi-Level Marketing: Engagements can be driven by financial motives rather than genuine interest.
• Recognizing True Intentions: Women might pitch business schemes ignoring your actual status or interests.

Guidance on Engagement

• Avoiding Delusion: Do not delude yourself about her intentions.
  • If she shows interest in your finances but not in relationships, recognize this.
  • Every woman seeks love; someone else might not pay for her affection.

Recognizing Worthwhile Partners

• Spotting Red Flags: Listen for indications in conversation.
  • Mention of past relationships or preferences might indicate lack of worth.
  • Be aware of what they choose to share and what they avoid.

Closing Advice

• Avoiding Toxic Connections: Spot dishonor early.
  • If no real connection, no bridge to burn.
  • Address relationships with awareness and understanding of true intentions.