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Understanding Respect in Relationships

Ladies and Saints, how to know if she does not respect you? Well, first and foremost, the easiest way to figure out if she's going to respect you is, does she respect herself? Most of them don't. Yes, they have very little self-regard. You can observe this in their characteristics. Are they smokers? Are they drinkers? Are they party girls? Also, where did you meet them? How accessible are they? These are very clear telltale signs. of the female's true value and even how she perceives her own value. I'm going to give you a number of primary documents, if you will. I'll be referencing true conversations that I've had with really top tier women in terms of attractiveness, not top tier in terms of personality, intelligence, and value, but in terms of attractiveness. May I acknowledge Jiren. He writes, what does it mean when a female says she is too busy for a relationship? Number one, that means she's lying. that means she's lying no one is too busy for anything in fact there's no really not really a such thing as too busy it's just a matter of priorities if you have boss university which i presume maybe you don't have boss university you've not taken it in boss university we talk about time versus priorities so for those of you who haven't gotten boss university i highly recommend it you'll understand yourself better you'll be able to influence yourself so that you can really get to the boss's level and also you'll understand other human beings a little bit better so from boss university there's a great lesson on time and priorities let me simply say that what she's telling you is that relationships might not be a priority but what she's more likely telling you is that she doesn't want a relationship with you both the male and the female they're love bugs love is really the primary driving force of all of humankind and underneath love you have things such as affection intercourse you know all of these positive feelings that you can draw out from the concept of love and relationships. It is the most important thing to all of us, those fools who would say, oh, you know, I'm focused on getting the bag. Well, why do you want the bag? You want the bag so that you can get more love because you can purchase things for the people you care about. You want the bag so you can buy fancy clothes so people give you more compliments and affection. You want the bag so that you can pay for your surgeries and feel better. better about yourself so you can be confident and get more attention. So it all goes back to love, intercourse, affection, all of these human things. So a woman is lying. In fact, often a man is lying when they say that they're not prioritizing a relationship or in other words, love. So that's just frankly not true. In some cases, they've deluded themselves. In the case of this broad, she probably is trying to delude you. Hear me? She's trying to fool you. So that's number one. Secondly, he writes, a turbo thick one gave me her number. It turns out she does massages. Well, generally, we would have to categorize her as a working girl. And those of you who can read subtext know what that means. And in as much as she's a working girl, you have to understand that your engagement with her will be transactional. And you'll probably not be the one financially benefiting from the transaction. What I want to highlight to you is that. especially those who have lower IQ, their ability to be good listeners or to disguise their self interest is usually not very impressive. They want to use you and they don't even really pretend. The young lady who gives you her number and says, hey, I'm a masseuse, I do massage. Well, her goal is to use you for money. You get the massage and then she gets the money. But here's the thing, you're probably not going to get a high quality massage. pay for a 30 minute, you pay for an hour, you're probably not going to get a full 30 or a full hour. She's trying to make quick money. Very few people today, especially females, want to earn their money. In fact, women don't even like working. That's the truth of the matter. That's why they all want to provide her. They don't like working. They're extraordinarily lazy and you got to make them work. That's really why HOE needs a P. You dig? You got to make them work. That's just the fact of human existence. Anyways, he writes, I don't know if she wants the D or she just wants me as a client. No, you do know. She wants you as a client. And that's all there is to it. Now, in some cases, an individual who is a trick can convert into a boyfriend. But at the end of the day, you'll basically be a provider for her. You'll be a source of income and she'll probably never be faithful. And that's something that you'll have to live with. So I highly recommend that you engage this female with full knowledge of who she really is and what her intention is. And the truth of the matter is, I want you all to remember those who have lower IQ. they're not great hearers and when they have a specific interest especially when it's financial these broke chicks become very ruthless about money they're not going to get off of that i was in the wind I think it was maybe Friday night and there was a couple chicks that had came over and started engaging me. They're worth a dude, but they started talking to me and they were in town for a conference in the beauty industry. And so they're being very complimentary. And then eventually they get to it. That's a multilevel marketing scheme and they're trying to recruit me. They're like, oh, what do you do for work? I run a company. They're like, oh, OK, well. You know, like, I just want to tell you, like, if you help us with this, then like anyone you recruit, you'll get paid money for the people you recruit. What are they doing? They're trying to get me into a multilevel marketing scheme at the peon level, at the bottom level. And in my head, I'm thinking like, are you listening? I'm a CEO of a corporation. I make great money and have been doing that for many years. You're trying to bring me in at a peon level to make you money in a multilevel marketing scheme. It just shows you they're not listening. She's not listening to what I'm saying. She's trying to. pitch me and trying to sell me something. And so that's what I want you guys to know. Don't ever be like them, which is your interest might be a relationship. Your interest might be smashing. Your interest might be connecting on a deeper level. Her interest, she told you, I'm a masseuse. Gave you the number. I'm not interested in a relationship. I'm too busy for a relationship, but I'm a masseuse. Well, she's trying to get a dollar out of you. And so you'd be wise to deal with the reality. And I'm not saying, hey, if you'd like to pay for her massage services or whatever happy ending she might offer you, go ahead and do it. But do it in full knowledge of what the possibilities are. But what I'd highly advise you to do is to not delude yourself and not waste your time. You're about to be wasting your time. You're about to be trying to pull something out of her that is not in her to give. There is no heart within her. There's no goodness within her. There's no relationship possibility within her for you. It's there for somebody. And I want everyone to understand this, even if. 304 needs love. You hear me? Even a bona fide street stroller needs love. You might pay for it, but there's somebody that's not paying for it. You might give her money, but there's some dude that she gives the money to. You hear me? You might have to pay her to beat it, but there's some other dude that she's letting smash and dash and he ain't gave her no cash. You hear me? Every woman is a human being. She might try to get the money from you, but somebody else, she ain't even told them she a masseuse. She trying to hear what they do. You hear me? She ain't even told them she ain't got time for a relationship. She's trying to ask them, what are you looking for? She's trying to ask them, what are we, right? So understand where you stand in that woman's life. He writes, where do these type of women end up in life? Ah, it doesn't matter. We got to ask the right questions in life. The only good news is that they don't end up with you. You dig? You should avoid them like the plague. He writes, how do you burn bridges quicker to avoid these types? Well, you know, a bridge only exists when there's been a real connection. If there never was a connection, there's no bridge to burn. You pretty much tell her to get lost from a boss and don't ever respond again. So that's quite simple. But the real question I think you're asking me is how do you spot out early enough that they're not honorable women that are going to be worth holding on to? I have a young lady in Eastern Europe, good looking young lady, very much so will please me in the way that I want, feminine, affectionate, will wake up and cook up a meal. doesn't do the dishes, which bothers me, but she'll wake up and cook up a meal, dresses really well, is willing to help with business. But I listen to her. I'm a listener. And for example, she told me she likes black guys, major red flag, red flag on the play. She likes black guys. Oh man, strike one. And then number two, she's even willing to joke about it and have conversation. I forget precisely what we're discussing, but somehow. an African country came up in the discussion and she said, oh, more black guys. And I was like, see, like you think that's funny. I don't think that's funny at all. I think that's rather disgusting in a number of ways. Any woman that thinks it's okay to talk about guys or casually speak of sexual history or past boyfriends, unless you ask, is a woman that is not a worthwhile woman. And so as soon as I heard that, I was like, oh, one hitter quitter category. He did maybe side piece, but probably not. And so you have to be a listener. They will reveal themselves in their conversation. They will reveal themselves in their history. They will reveal themselves in the questions they refuse to answer and the questions that they think too hard on. You see, the truth is very simple and apparent. It's the lies that require thought and pondering. So they will reveal themselves. And the only challenge for us is, will you listen and will you believe when they tell you who they are? Or will you look at their beauty and... and wish that they were something better, where you look at their beauty and have excessive hope.