How to Get Men to Chase You Using Ego

Introduction

• Understanding men's psychology to trigger pursuit
• Utilizing ego to get more than just attention
• Importance of participation in the discussion
• Audience interaction through live chats

The Male Gaze

• Definition: How women are portrayed from a man’s perspective in film/media
  • Dressing women to be most attractive through male gaze
• Key Concept: Recognition that men perceive not only the woman but also other men’s interest in her
• Impact on Men: Men value women more when they see other men valuing them
• Perception and Value: Value is often based on perceived attractiveness and interest by others

Competition

• Competition Among Men: Men want to feel superior to others
• Role of Competitiveness: Drives men to pursue perceived high-value women harder
• Creating Perceived Value: Being slightly unattainable raises a woman's perceived value
• Practical Tips: Don’t be too available; balance presence and absence
  • Spend limited, high-quality time
  • Keep men wanting more

The Prize/Trophy Concept

• Presenting Yourself as a Prize: Embody characteristics of a highly sought-after woman
• Maintaining Mystique: Never let them feel they've 'won' you completely
• Negating Mundane Perception: Avoid appearing too available or desperate
  • Real-life vs. celebrity crush comparison: Make yourself seem unique and valuable

Making Challenges

• Justifying Pursuit: Men need to feel they worked hard for access to valuable women
• Balancing Availability: Manage time and resources to stay slightly out of reach
• Boundaries: Set firm boundaries and stick to them to add to the challenge

Reflection and Ego

• Post-Pursuit Perception: Men view successful pursuit of a high-value woman as a reflection of their own value
• Ego Tied to Relationship: Losing a valued woman threatens a man's ego and self-perception
• Importance of Withdrawal: When necessary, withdrawing boosts your value by creating a sense of loss and competition

Commentary on Audience Questions

• Examples and Advice: Engage in real scenarios to provide personalized insight
• Common Pitfalls: Avoid unnecessary communication and validate real-life interactions rather than digital communication

Practical Takeaways

• Being Unattainable: Implement strategies to appear less available and more desirable
• Strengthening Perceived Value: Use subtle cues and strategic interactions to maintain high perceived value
• Balancing Act: Master the balance between giving and withholding attention

Conclusion

• Recap of using men's ego and psychology to drive pursuit
• Encouraging confidence and strategy in interactions with men