Importance of recognizing deeper, identity-level deal breakers in women.
Surface-level red flags can sometimes be addressed with boundaries.
Six major deal breakers that should not be ignored.
1. Tatted Up
Key Points:
Studies indicate people with tattoos may have more mental health issues, sleep problems, and risky behaviors (e.g., smoking, high number of sex partners).
Tattoos may signify higher risk tolerance, often seen as a masculine trait beneficial for men (e.g., taking career risks).
Women with many tattoos might have unresolved trauma or tendencies towards risky behavior.
2. Strange Things
Key Points:
People who brag about negative behaviors or actions (e.g., legal confrontations with landlords, drinking while pregnant) reveal their true character.
Maintaining relationships with people who have an upside-down moral compass can influence your own values negatively.
3. Feminism in 2024
Key Points:
Feminism originally sought equal rights but now some perceive it as anti-men or wanting supremacy over men.
Identifying strongly with modern feminism often implies a non-traditional view on relationships and roles.
4. Drinking to Get Drunk
Key Points:
Regularly getting drunk, even infrequently, is a serious issue akin to alcoholism.
Drinking can lead to major issues in relationships, including fights and instability, especially with future family expansion.
5. Speaking Trashy
Key Points:
Aggressive and disrespectful speech patterns are often picked up from generational behavior in low-income areas.
Having a partner who speaks disrespectively can affect one’s own behavior and societal perception.
6. Doesn't Cook or Clean
Key Points:
Basic skills like cooking and cleaning are essential, especially in traditional relationship setups.
Proudly refusing to engage in such tasks indicates an attitude problem and potential household management issues.
Conclusion
Recognizing these deal breakers is essential to maintaining a healthy and stable relationship.
Being vigilante about these traits can save one from future relationship turmoil.