bro I do not care how hot she is stay the away so recently there's been a big focus on red flags in women for example a girl who has male friends or who posts thirst traps online or who still talks to her ex-boyfriend and don't get me wrong these things can definitely be a big problem but often times they're more surface level things that can be addressed if you just set burn boundaries however the six things that we're going to take a look at in this video are not simple red flag these things are complete deal breakers these are deeper identity level things and even if a girl you're seeing or talking to does not have any red flags at all but she is guilty of one of the following six things you have to stay away bro or she is going to completely ruin your life now as you can see we also got Julia on the video today hey guys what's up I feel like this is one that we're going to want to have that that female perspective to balance out the things we're taking a look at mhm number one she's tatted up and for full transparency I do have a full sleeve t tattoo here I'm going to put my hoodie back on now now unfortunately for people with tattoos there are some studies here that do not reflect well on us for example one study discovered that people with tattoos were more likely to be diagnosed with mental health issues and to report sleep problems I'm not sure about sleep problems but let's continue researchers also found that people who had tattoos were more likely to be smokers to have spent time in jail and to have a higher number of sex partners in the past year well it makes sense because tattoos are a more riskier Behavior they're more painful and there's something permanent on your body and usually they're done like impulsively yeah and I think there is a little bit of a double standard here between men with tattoos and women with tattoos because for a man having a higher risk tolerance and being able to take risks is uh something that almost always leads to a positive payoff for example you got to take risks to even approach girls and create dating opportunities we have to take risks in our careers if we want to make more money and get to the top obviously now in 2024 women can also women don't have to take the risks ever in the dating Market let's be real but they can also take those career risks yeah but let's be serious like they're in career if they're fully tatted like they're not going to have a good career yeah that's a good point I think it's just more emblematic that it's someone who has masculine energy if they have a lot of tattoos I think for girls that are fully tatted it's more of a mental health thing that they're hiding from their trauma or they're trying to display you know that they've had some some issues not to mention you don't really want to data girl that likes the risky Behavior like tattoos sexual partners whatever it may be yeah and to be fair I think a lot of guys also probably get tattoos to cover up mental health issues as well we're not talking about dating men here though and also we're not talking about like little tattoos that girls get because their grandmother died and they're trying to do like a tribute to them number two strange things not stranger things like the TV show strange things so there's a guy we know who told us this weird story about his landlord he was telling us that his dog was poop pooping All Over the Garden in his apartment complex and the landlord was like that's not cool you got to stop that so what this guy did rather than stopping his dog was he went and got a lawyer to threaten to sue the landlord because I guess he was trying to like set a boundary with him and after he told us the story I was seriously scratching my head like Julie this that story made him look really aggressive and bad for you know pointlessly attacking his landlord legally like what yeah we were so caught off guard that he was telling us this story that made him look so bad and he was like super proud of it and the other day I was actually getting my hair done and I told my hairdresser that I was pregnant and she was like oh when I was pregnant I drank my whole pregnancy nothing to worry about there's really no research on it and she was like very proud that she drank her whole pregnancy it's like yeah you're so cool that you're killing your baby in the womb that's awesome but sometimes you'll meet people guys are girls who just brag about weird things like I beat the [ __ ] out of this guy at the bar last week it's like cool you're getting in barf fights man that's that's real awesome or a girl telling you about different hookups she's had or how she was arrested for doing something illegal and when anyone does this and again it could be a guy you have to understand they're showing you they're revealing who they are and you should [ __ ] listen it's the same thing that if a girl tells you like hey I'm not really interested in seeing you anymore you know I I wish you the best and I have guys asking me like what do I say back to that I'm like bro she literally just told you she's not interested just listen to her it's just pointless to get engaged with a girl or even have a close friend as a guy who has an upside down moral compass because that's going to it's going to rub off on you it's going to lower your vibrational State and it's not going to change yeah and then what if you all have kids together in the future what what type of role model is that number three some people might not like this she still identifies as a feminist in 2024 and we'll see what Julia thinks about this one but look the idea of feminism is that men should have or women excuse me [ __ ] [ __ ] this is the problem yeah who knows anymore what it means right feminism in its oldest meaning was that women should have equal opportunity to men however we being real legally women have had the same rights as men for many years now and feminists are people who still identify as feminists in 2024 almost always it seems like they don't want to be equal to men they want to be on top of men and they want men to you know pay for all their sins of the past and and be repenting under women yeah I think growing up I definitely would have identified as a feminist I really wanted equal rights for women I wanted women to feel like they had the same opportunity as men but as of grown older and realize that we do it's more now hating men and I really don't like that and when you hear women talk about it they just really hate men and they're so against men and I I'm not for that but let's not get carried away I think it's futile as a man to be angry at feminists or worry about that let's just keep our heads down focused on our own lane focused on improving our own lives how however if you are in the dating market and you meet a girl who has let's say her pronouns are in her bio and she's very passionate about all these types of things think you know the things I'm talking about AKA Wicked woke again when people reveal themselves to you listen she is telling you that she does not want a traditional relationship she doesn't want to be a wife and a mother at least not in the traditional sense and look if you're open to this different type of setup that's completely fine but don't expect her to change these things have been uh they're in there they're they're there to stay you know something else that kind of grosses me out what when women have bad acne yeah it's the same with men when they have like pimples oily skin red skin or it's just super wrinkly yes time for us all to step up our skin care game and also level up our confidence cuz when you have that clear skin you look in the mirror you feel a lot better about yourself and that is why we decided to partner with te Hanley to be the sponsor of today's video look T Hanley simplifies the process of having amazing skin they provide you with all of the products you need and nothing that you don't I'd 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to the next level number four she gets drunk so a misconception I think a lot of people have have is that you can only be an alcoholic if you drink every single day but I know people that don't drink 9 to 5 all week they are fine but then on the weekends they get sosed they're literally blackout okay so regardless whether or not you label it as alcoholism or being alcoholic because I think some people might get uh a bit defensive there I would say that if you're someone and this also goes for you bro not just girls but if you're someone who regularly drinks to get drunk even if that's just like one or two times per month like it's a regular habit that you drink to get drunk and you're not still University or some like you know heavy drinking culture not that it's good then but we are a product of our environments there's there's a problem in fact we know that of people who are clinically considered alcoholics and like Julia said that doesn't mean you drink every day only 35% recover and stop and a lot of youall probably know this just creates so many problems in a relationship because that's when fights tend to happen the big blowout fights right when just one of y'all is blackout drunk also the person who drinks is going to be going out a lot most guys don't want their girl going out a lot to the bars and the clubs it doesn't tend to be a place that really helps facilitate a monogamous relationship and the same goes for guys as well you know if your girls staying at home you're going out getting drunk at the clubs all the time that's still a [ __ ] relationship and take that one step further what is that going to look like when you guys have kids yeah and let's be real actually just looked at the stats and men are about twice as likely than women to become alcoholics and some of y'all probably you know unfortunately grew up in a household where one or both of your parents drank so you understand and how uh serious this is so if you're someone who falls into this category now maybe this is just that additional reminder you need to start making some serious changes but if you're dating a girl and she drinks to get drunk man time to move on it's not going to change number five she speaks trashy it's going to be nothing but short short skirts so both of us grew up in suburbs near Boston and as you know the Boston accent it's a bit trashy it's a matter of smart ass you don't know any [ __ ] Shakespeare and man a lot of kids I went to school with they they were so proud to speak like this and say you know what the [ __ ] are you talking about kid and I think a lot of it is it's people from more lowincome areas and they take pride in swearing a lot not being respectful being kind of aggressive how they how they speak to people in general you know those people that kind of say things to make other people feel really uncomfortable those types of people and I'm not saying these are bad people a lot of them I knew are actually good people with good Hearts but it is a bit of an ugly habit I think a lot of it comes generationally cuz that's how their parents spoke and then that's how their grandparents spoke so on one hand it's it's not their fault but on the other hand it's also not likely to change so if you meet a girl who speaks like this hey guys Tammy here on one hand it's going to start to rub off on you I'm saying that having been around people who speak like this a lot of my life you start to speak a little bit less respectfully it just kind of lowers your vibrational frequency also you're going to be embarrassed to go out with her because she's going to be rude you're getting $5 okay and then you're going to be uncomfortable and you're just not going to want to date someone like that and do you want your kids to grow up modeling their behavior after that and if you're watching this and you do have some of these speech patterns Focus consciously on changing that bro because it's also holding you back in your relationships you know meeting higher level men improving in your business in your career the higher level guys they're going to they're going to be a little bit repulsed by that speech number six she does not cook or clean and she's kind of proud of it too I don't cook I don't clean growing up I have a sister and my mom made it very clear that me and her were going to know how to clean the house and we were going to know how to cook she did not have to teach any of this to my brother it was not a priority it was a priority that we knew how to do this and I feel like it's like a basic skill that every girl needs to bring to the table Yeah and even if you don't need like the most traditional type of relationship even though I do think that's what most men are aiming for today it's something that I mean I could say the same thing about you bro if I came over your place and it was a complete mess with with [ __ ] everywhere that says a lot of where you are at in your life and I'd probably bet things are not going your way because you're not taking control and not taking pride in the environments around you that's actually a good place to start with self-improvement but as a girl like what else are you bringing to the table if you're if the man is supposed to bring the finances like a woman needs to be able to take care of a household and how are you going to who's going to take care of it if she's not now to be fair there's some girls who are not raised like you and your sister and they don't know how to cook yet I think the bigger problem is when you meet a girl who's like proudly telling you yeah I don't cook I don't like to cook and then she's kind of like looking over at you waiting for your response like you're going to be so impressed by the fact that she doesn't cook that's happened to me on dates before no for sure more than one time yeah well she expects the man to do it it's this type of entitled attitude that I am who I am and you can't change me and you better like that and and chase after me and it's it's gross honestly so let's take this one step further let's say you marry this girl that doesn't cook and you have children together who's going to do the cooking well there's a lot more cooking and cleaning to happen once there's kids so if your girl doesn't do it you better be prepared to be doing a lot of cooking and a lot of cleaning or I guess like the kids are going to starve and you're have like the dirtiest house ever now if you're working hard to improve your dating life and meet higher quality women then you need to watch this video next it's about five sneaky ways that women test a man's confidence and I know you're not trying to to mess around with girls that are playing games but even the high quality ones they're going to test you a little bit so click there to watch that now so you're ready to pass the tests if you're new to the channel click down there to subscribe as I drop two new videos every single week and you don't want to 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