How to Get a Woman Obsessed with You

Introduction

• Discussion of powerful techniques that can create strong, lasting relationships or toxic situations.
• Warning 1: Use techniques for good, not evil.
• Warning 2: Be cautious about desiring obsession; it carries responsibility and consequences.

Understanding Love and Obsession

• Love vs. Obsession:
  • Falling in love is an internal process, created in a person's mind when they are not around.
  • Absence can enhance feelings of love or obsession.

Anecdotes for Clarification

1. Quote on Falling in Love:
   • Love is something you do to yourself when the other person isn't around.
2. Gambling Machines:
   • Variable payouts create anticipation and addiction, similar to emotional investments in relationships.
3. Professor Analogy:
   • Hard-earned rewards (like a B+) are valued more than easy ones (an A).
4. Personal Story:
   • Emotional investment often aligns more with negative experiences (like an abusive parent) than positive ones.

Key Concepts for Creating Obsession

• Absence:
  • Creates space for appreciation, avoiding taking each other for granted.
• Disappointment:
  • Occasional disappointments can enhance appreciation of positive experiences.
• Animal Training Analogy:
  • Variable rewards create deeper habits; humans respond similarly in emotional contexts.

Techniques to Implement

1. Disqualification:
   • Push the girl away slightly; create genuine reasons why you might not work out.
2. Leaving on Read:
   • Be strategic about responding to texts; create anticipation and suspense.
3. Framing and Storytelling:
   • Frame yourself as the prize; encourage shared stories and narratives between you.
4. Preemptive Freeze-Out:
   • Pull away when things are going well to create tension and anticipation.
5. Suspenseful Open Loops:
   • Create situations that leave her wondering, building emotional tension.

Conclusion

• Use these techniques ethically and responsibly; prioritize positive relationships.
• Remember the emotional impact of obsession; it can lead to severe consequences if misused.