How to Listen Like a Leader

Introduction

• Importance of listening as a leadership skill
• Lack of emphasis on listening in leadership books
• Common misconception: leadership is about talking and telling

The Story of Golden State Warriors

• 2015 NBA Championship
• Steve Kerr, head coach, and Nick U'Ren, video assistant
• U'Ren's idea to bench Andrew Bogut and play Andre Iguodala
• Result: Golden State won the championship
• Key takeaway: Steve Kerr listened to all levels of his team

The Importance of Listening in Leadership

1. Biblical Context

   • Reference to 2 Kings 17:14, 40: Consequences of not listening
   • Listening impacts future generations

2. Modern Context

   • Example of a young leader distracted by his phone
   • Proverbs 15:31, 18:13, 19:20-27, John 10:27, James 1:19: Importance of listening

3. Who to Listen to?

   • Leaders and Mentors: Accept correction and seek advice
   • Peers and Friends: Encourage open rebuke as a sign of true friendship
   • Followers: Create a culture where ideas flow from all levels
   • Critics: Valid criticism can offer valuable insights
   • Spouse: Key to decision-making in unity
   • God: Ultimately, listen for God's voice, which may come in unexpected ways

Practical Applications

• Responding to correction and criticism
• Giving permission to others to speak into one's life
• Benefits and pitfalls of listening to followers

Q&A Session Highlights

• Importance of listening as a form of respect
• Handling team conflicts while maintaining relationships
• Strategies for making unified decisions in teams

Conclusion

• Listening is a foundational leadership skill
• It's about hearing God's voice through various channels
• Encourage open dialogue and build a culture of listening in leadership practices