Lecture Notes on Why Men Don't Approach Women Anymore
Introduction
Topic: Eight reasons why men don't approach women nowadays
Context: From a man's perspective and how to reverse this trend
Welcome: Players Club; live stream setting with participants checking in
Key Points and Main Ideas
1. App Anxiety
Explanation: Men are accustomed to approaching women via social media/Dating apps (DMs, Tinder, etc.) which leads to anxiety in face-to-face interactions.
Impact: Reduced practice and skill in real-life conversations lead to nervousness and avoidance of in-person meeting.
Solution: Women should spend more time in venues where real-life interactions are likely (not dating apps, clubs, or bars).
2. The Old Days
Comparison: Past involved effort in meeting women (landlines, face-to-face interactions) which increased the value of courtship.
Modern Issue: Easy access and low effort via dating apps lessen men's motivations to approach women seriously.
Solution: Make yourself less accessible through apps and more present in physical, high-quality social spaces.
3. Skill Gap
Issue: Required social skills for in-person charm have diminished because of reliance on online/text interactions.
Impact: Decrease in men's ability to entertain and maintain an interesting, witty conversation in person.
Solution: Encourage building face-to-face connection skills by avoiding low-quality interaction methods.
4. Female Masculinity
Concept: Hot girl mindset and summer promotes masculine traits in women.
Impact: Masculine energy in women leads to attracting more feminine men, reducing men's drive to approach.
Solution: Women should focus on embodying feminine energy to attract masculine, confident men.
5. Fear of Rejection
Issue: Dating apps have developed a subconscious avoidance of rejection — men are not accustomed to facing rejection from uninterested women.
Impact: Creates an environment of fear and social anxiety, making men hesitant to approach women in real life.
Solution: Spend time away from places where men avoiding rejection (like dating apps) gather.
6. Microwave Men
Concept: Men looking for the easiest, least effort path to physical relationships.
Impact: Such men frequent dating apps and bars, preferring quick access over building meaningful relationships.
Solution: Identify and avoid spaces dominated by 'microwave men' seeking quick and easy connections.
7. Addiction to Pineapple Movies (sensitive term for adult content)
Concept: Frequent consumption of adult content diminishes men's drive to pursue real-life romantic interactions.
Impact: Reduces their motivation to approach and maintain physical relationships with women.
Solution: Recognize and avoid men who remain overly influenced by such content; aim for authentic interactions.
Wrap Up
Q&A: Engagement with live chat on finding balance in showing interest, addressing specific relationship problems.
Final advice: Prioritize where you spend your time by focalizing more on in-person, traditional means of meeting potential partners rather than digital mediums.
Closing
Reminder: Need for stepping out and involving oneself in environments that foster genuine connections.
Thank you: Gratitude expressed to live stream participants.