Stages to Reconciliation and Passing Relationship Tests

Overview

• Understanding and navigating through five predictable stages is crucial for reconciliation with your spouse.
• Each stage presents subconscious tests from your partner to check if you're the right man for her.
• Avoiding mistakes in these stages prevents self-sabotage and regression.

Stage 1: Negative Sentiment

• Characteristics: No contact or minimal contact with apathy or indifference.
• Tests: No contact is the initial test; if she's still responding, it's a sign she's open.
• Actions:
  • Believe you are the best man for her.
  • Cultivate self-sufficiency and the ability to live without her.

Stage 2: Resentment Switch

• Characteristics: Increased contact with anger and resentment.
• Importance: Expression of emotions indicates trust.
• Tests: Validating and accepting emotions without resistance.
• Responses:
  • Avoid logical responses; use humor or agree and amplify.
  • Do not fall into her frame of negativity.

Stage 3: Polarity Pool

• Characteristics: Dual mind narrative, showing love and distance.
• Tests: Leadership and decision-making.
• Examples:
  • Respond to "we won't work out" with humor and indifference.
  • Maintain a strong frame and confidence.

Stage 4: Projected Reality

• Characteristics: More positive interactions but lingering tests.
• Tests: Challenge behaviors and boundaries.
• Responses:
  • Hold firm to boundaries.
  • Avoid justifying past behaviors; focus on current self.

Stage 5: Intimacy Engagement

• Characteristics: Reduced frequency of tests but consistent.
• Tests: Attraction creation and boundary testing.
• Responses:
  • Maintain purpose and remain unperturbed.
  • Accept tests as a form of attraction and connection.

General Tips

• Tests are a fundamental part of relationships.
• A partner's testing often signals the desire for reassurance and connection.
• Maintain a balance of self-belief and independence.
• Engage with humor, acceptance, and strong frame.

Conclusion

• Embrace the tests as signs of relationship dynamics.
• Continual growth in personal strength and love will naturally improve relationship dynamics.

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