Overview
The conversation is a casual, in-depth interview focused on MMA, personal growth, cultural contrasts, career ambitions, motivation, and mindset, featuring two speakers with ties to Indonesia and the U.S. They share stories about fighting, coaching, promotion, life goals, and the importance of remembering one's purpose.
Early Life and Fighting Background
- One speaker promoted garage fights in high school and acted as referee for local matches.
- Both discuss their early experiences with martial arts and competitions, noting formative early losses.
- The fastest fight mentioned was won in 7 seconds.
Martial Arts Career Progression
- The guest is currently undefeated with a 7-0 record and is aiming for a UFC career.
- Two regional U.S. promotions (CFFC, LFA) are described as “college football” equivalents for MMA.
- The guest was offered a spot on "The Ultimate Fighter" (TUF) but declined due to illness and contract issues.
- Goal is to fight in the UFC this year, aiming for 1–2 fights.
Cultural and Personal Insights
- Discussion on differences between the U.S. and Indonesia in food prices, daily life, social culture, and weather.
- The guest expresses a strong connection to Indonesia, now holding dual citizenship, and plans to spend part of each year there.
- Indonesian culture and work ethic are praised for being busier and more vibrant than often assumed.
Mindset, Motivation, and Advice
- Strong emphasis on enjoying the process, not just outcomes, and not defining oneself by wins or losses.
- Guest credits motivation to Indonesian supporters and stresses leadership and setting an example for Indonesian athletes.
- Believes Indonesia has the resources and potential to develop more world-class fighters.
Long-term Goals and Vision
- Aspires to become UFC Champion, defend the belt, then retire to coaching and mentoring others in Indonesia.
- Advocates the “each one teach one” philosophy and importance of building supportive communities.
Books, Inspirations, and Hobbies
- Favorite books discussed: "Atomic Habits," "The Creative Act," "Winner Effect," and "It Takes What It Takes."
- Both speakers enjoy creative pursuits, filmmaking, and YouTube content; cite Ryan Higa and Smosh as inspirations.
- Journaling is highlighted as a critical practice for mental focus and growth.
Personal Life and Relationships
- Guest has been in a long-term relationship (8 years) with a partner from the U.S. Taekwondo team.
- Both speakers reflect on maintaining humility, passion, and balance as fame and responsibilities grow.
MMA, Influences, and Role Models
- Top MMA fighters named: Demetrious Johnson, Jon Jones, Ilya Topuria, Conor McGregor, and GSP.
- The importance of learning from other athletes and integrating different influences is discussed.
- Key mental shift happened after visualizing and replicating a Karate Kid move, reinforcing belief in personal ability.
Reflections and Legacy
- Advice for athletes: surround yourself with supportive, honest friends and remember your original purpose (“your why”).
- The guest’s message to his future self: don’t forget the reason you started, even after achieving success.
- Belief that anyone can succeed regardless of origin, provided they have discipline and follow proven blueprints.
Decisions
- Aim to fight in the UFC this year.
- Pursue building a gym and coaching in Indonesia after fighting career.
Action Items
- TBD – Guest: Learn and improve Indonesian language skills.
- TBD – Guest: Read “Start With Why” as recommended.
- TBD – Both: Continue journaling and sharing inspirational content for others.
Recommendations / Advice
- Surround yourself with honest, supportive people who keep you accountable.
- Focus on the process over results and don’t define your identity by wins or losses.
- Leverage your experiences to inspire and help others in your community.
- Always remember and return to your core motivation (“your why”) as you advance in your career.