Overview
The discussion explores the cultural significance of greetings (insa) in Korean society, emphasizing their role in expressing respect, especially within hierarchical relationships. Comparisons with Western practices and practical examples highlight the nuances and expectations around greetings.
The Importance of Insa in Korean Society
- Greeting (insa) is central to politeness and respect, particularly from younger to older individuals.
- Not greeting or acknowledging someone, even from a distance, is seen as rude in Korea.
- Insa is more than just "hello" or "goodbye"; it can include respectful gestures and messages.
Hierarchy and Politeness
- Korean culture emphasizes hierarchy, with younger people expected to greet older individuals first.
- Complimenting children on being "good at insa" usually means they are polite and respectful.
- Deep bows, such as the "belly button greeting" (pickul insa), are seen as particularly respectful, especially among children.
Social Contexts and Examples
- On public transport, children greeting bus drivers is considered polite and noteworthy, whereas adults rarely do so.
- Teachers often mention a student's insa skills in school reports, indicating its importance in character assessment.
- In Korean dramas and movies, phrases like "sunbae posum insa haetni?" highlight the expectation for juniors to greet seniors.
Nuances and Expressions
- "Sunbae" refers to someone older or more experienced in a school or workplace setting; "hoobae" is the junior.
- Phrases like "insa-reul si-kida" mean to have someone else greet someone; this usually involves introducing a junior to a senior.
- The expectation for the younger person or person of lower social status to greet first is strong but evolving.
Changing Norms and Personal Experiences
- Hosts note that while tradition dictates younger people greet first, norms may change over time, with older individuals sometimes initiating greetings.
- There can be ambiguity in social situations, such as interactions between adults and teenagers.
Recommendations / Advice
- When in doubt, greet first and use polite language.
- Practice insa actively to show respect and adapt to social norms in Korean society.