What Men Think a High-Value Woman Is

Introduction

• Importance: Understanding what men think a high-value woman is
• Clarification: High-value refers to being seen as an important partner, not overall human worth
• Men need to sense these traits, not be told
• Self-worth: It’s often experience-based, not just from verbal affirmations

Seven Qualities of a High-Value Woman

1. Know Your Worth

• Recognize your strengths and unique qualities
• Example: Gold analogy - No need to explain, the right person will see the value
• Confidence builds through achieving difficult goals
• Example: Personal story of gaining self-confidence through fitness achievements

2. Be Something to Work For

• Men fundamentally appreciate things they have to work for
• Make him wait for intimacy, have strong boundaries
• Example: Expensive items are usually not openly displayed
• Build an exciting life where men are not the center

3. Show, Don’t Tell

• Actions speak louder than words
• Set boundaries through actions, not just verbal explanations
• Example: Using body language to indicate discomfort

4. The Power of Saying No

• Saying no enforces your boundaries and self-worth
• Example: Sticking to your stance about not kissing on the first date
• Ensure actions align with your words to maintain credibility

5. Willingness to Walk Away

• Indicates high self-worth
• If not respected, be willing to leave the relationship
• Take time to reconsider second chances to make him feel the loss
• Example: Not forgiving infidelities too quickly

6. Don’t Chase

• Chasing reduces your perceived value to a man
• Stand firm if a man pulls away
• Example: Don’t make excuses for his bad behavior, encourage him to work on himself

7. Maintain Feminine Energy

• Let men present their case; stay in feminine energy
• Pursuing is masculine energy
• Don’t wait around for someone to be ‘ready’; let them come back to you when they are

Conclusion

• Reflective Question: Do you need to work on yourself to become more valuable, or are you more valuable by simply thinking that you are?
• Reminder: Self-change leads to change in relationships
• Encouragement: Thank you for support, helping others learn about love, intimacy, and relationships