The Three Questions Game: Relational Psychology

Overview

• A fun, interactive game based on relational psychology.
• Useful for getting to know new people in a deeper way.
• Consists of three questions designed to reveal personal insights and perspectives.

Instructions

• Take out a piece of paper.
• Write down answers to the following questions without changing them later.

Question 1: Favorite Color

• Write down your favorite color and three deep reasons why (e.g., "It feels peaceful" rather than "It's the color of the sky")

Question 2: Favorite Animal

• Write down your favorite animal and three deep reasons why.
• Can include mythical or non-existent animals.

Question 3: Favorite Form or Body of Water

• Write down your favorite form (e.g., rain, snow, ice) or body of water (e.g., lake, ocean) and three deep reasons why.

Revealing the Meanings

• Cross out your answer for color and write "My view of my own personality."
• Cross out your answer for animal and write "My view of my perfect mate."
• Cross out your answer for water and write "My view of my own sexuality."

Practical Use

• This game can provide revealing insights, useful for dating or getting to know someone.
• Example: A personal story of using the game on a date where the partner's answer to question 2 clarified compatibility.

Key Takeaways

• This game offers a fun and thought-provoking way to examine personal preferences and psychological insights.
• Effective tool for relationship building and understanding personal and others' perspectives.