i i have this really fun game that i love playing with people when i first meet them it's called the three questions game it's basically relational psychology the first question is actually just answer it should we just do it we should do it this is fun this is fun we're just gonna have fun okay okay you gotta take out your little papers and you don't get to change your answers after i tell you what this means okay i feel like we're playing games this is good okay the first question what is your favorite color and three deep reasons why by deep reasons i don't want stuff like because it's the color of the sky that's not deep okay deep is like oh it feels peaceful to me or it feels epic to me or you know deep reasons why this is your favorite color you guys done with that one okay question number two what is your favorite animal and three deep reasons why dare to dream but everybody gets to remember what she just asked okay it doesn't have to be just on earth okay we're done next question what is your favorite form or body of water and three deep reasons why a form of water could be like rain snow etc ice right a body of water could be like a lake or it could be a specific lake or it could be something like toilet bowl water anything water what is my favorite water and three deep reasons why you guys done or you need more time done okay so i want you to take your little pins and through the first thing the color like if you if you actually wrote the word color did you if well if you wrote color you're going to put a little line through it like you're crossing it out and you're going to write my view of my own personality with the second one you're gonna cross out animal and you're gonna put my view of my perfect mate now we're laughing see now we're laughing at you because you said did they have to actually be on the planet and with the last one you can cross out the water and put my view of my own sexuality slightly more depressing for some than others so now i just basically gave you the most fun game you can play with people that you've just met because they will have no idea what questions they're actually answering but you will know i'm gonna tell the butterfly story okay there are some people that like think that relational psychology is really fun and it's just a game that we play and then there are people like me who really believe in it so this is a really good way to whittle down whether you should continue dating someone or not so this is my story i was on a date the first time with a guy and i asked him this question number two is the one to concern yourself with if you're on a date so i asked this guy okay well what's your favorite animal in 3d reasons why no you guys know me pretty well right this is the guy's answer my favorite animal is a butterfly [Music] because it's always like butterflies are always beautiful no matter what and what i really love about them the most is that it seems like they're never around when you don't want them to be around they're only like it's just like they just show up at the most perfect moments oh it gets better with all these other animals they're just really loud like you know they're like a cat's like mowing and a dog is like barking and they're just silent [Laughter] i ended the date