Love Advice TV - When an Ex Says There Is No Chance of Getting Back Together

Introduction

• Hosts: Coach Alex Como and Coach Adrian
• Topic: What to do when an ex says there is no chance of getting back together

Understanding Why Exes Say There's No Chance

• Human Nature: Humans don't like admitting they made the wrong decision (ego involved)
• Protection Mechanism: Ex may be trying to protect you, ensure you move on
• Lack of Attraction: At the time of breakup, there is a diminished attraction
• Maintaining Decision: Exes feel the need to stand by their decision to friends and family

Common Reactions to Being Told There's No Chance

• Many plead, beg, or push their exes into a corner
• Exes establish boundaries to feel safe and respected
• Begging and pushing only reinforces their need to stick to their decision

Changing the Dynamics

• Focus on Personal Change: Change the way your ex sees you to change how they feel about you
• Past vs. Present: People and feelings evolve over time
• Don't Depend on Ex's Words: They won't provide the formula for getting back together
• Strategic Approach: Have a strategy that doesn't focus on your ex's current negative stance
• Positive Energy and Attraction: Create new positive interactions and emotions

Creating a New Vision

• Your job is to create a new vision for the relationship
• Focus on personal growth and improvements
• Avoid being needy or overcompensating for past mistakes

Key Mistakes to Avoid

• Begging: Shows desperation and lack of self-respect
• Negotiating: Treating love like a transaction
• Discussing the Past: Rehashing old issues keeps the focus on negativity
• Overcompensating: Buying gifts or excessive apologizing can come off as insincere

Using Reverse Psychology

• Respond to “No chance” with acceptance, e.g., “I know.”
• This response can surprise your ex and create a new type of interaction

Tactical Approach

• Don't resist the breakup; accept it to build something new
• Empathy for Your Ex: Understand their need for space and respect their boundaries

Additional Resources

• Coaching: Sessions to provide personalized guidance and strategies
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• Support Community: Engaging with the Love Advice TV family for support and tips

Conclusion

• Focus on what can be controlled: personal growth and new positive dynamics
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Final Thoughts

• Hosts express love and support
• Stay tuned for future episodes for continuous support and new strategies.