Importance of Height in Modern Dating

Key Points

• Speaker's Initial Observation:

  • Immediate attention was drawn not to the woman's preference for six-foot guys, which is expected, but to the comments from short guys condemning her behavior.
  • Many comments from short men trying to frame the situation as if they wouldn't want the woman due to her preference.
  • Reality: The woman doesn't want the guys who don’t meet her height criteria.

• Brutality of Height in Dating:

  • Most women have a standard minimum height, leading to preemptive rejection without considering personality.
  • Speaker referenced a chart showing rejection rates based on height:
    • 5'10": 15% rejection
    • 5'8": 50% rejection
    • 5'6": 75% rejection
    • 5'4": 90% rejection

• Misconception about Dating Power Dynamics:

  • Contrary belief: Men have the power and freedom of choice in dating.
  • Reality: Women choose who they want to date; men offer, women decide.
  • Short guys’ comments on rejecting women are often coping mechanisms as women prioritize looks first.

• Speed of Replacement:

  • The replacement of a man based on height preference can happen instantly.

• Contradictions by Men:

  • Some men who complain about rejections still subscribe to the same women's OnlyFans, fueling the problem they criticize.

Anecdotes Highlighting Height's Impact

1. 80/20 Rule in Modern Dating:

   • 80% of women desire the top 20% of men.
   • Example with five men: Women overwhelmingly prefer the taller, better-built man (#4).

2. Club Experience:

   • Speaker observed a 4/10 faced, 6'6" man making out with two attractive girls within 45 minutes, suggesting height preference plays a major role.

3. Table Tennis Club Experience:

   • A girl noticed a behavioral difference based on height; taller guys were straightforward, while shorter guys engaged in playful antics.

4. Reddit Story:

   • A married man’s wife suggested using a sperm donor due to his height issues, revealing deep-seated preferences and societal pressures.
   • 2013 study: Women happiest when partners are 21 cm taller; short men more likely to be bullied.

Conclusions

• Height significantly impacts dating prospects and relationships.
• Societal and personal biases, alongside experiences stemming from height, affect men's dating lives and mental state.
• The notion of the right mindset is crucial but is intertwined with factors like height.

Final Remarks

• Encouragement to share thoughts in comments for algorithm support.