[Music] sorry i'm not into short ties height matters to prove this let's take a closer look at that first clip again when i first saw this what immediately caught my attention wasn't the fact she only desires six-foot guys because if i'm honest this is expected it's a matter of common sense nowadays that most women only want guys six foot or over instead what caught my eye was the sheer amount of butt hurt angry and delusional short guys in the comments denouncing her behavior she's not interested in personality that's a red flag or i've dodged a bullet here guys make no mistake the people who wrote these comments are coping in my opinion the men who wrote these comments are trying to frame it as if they wouldn't want her that they are the ones turning their backs and walking in the other direction but in reality she's the one who doesn't want anything to do with guys who don't meet her height criteria it's an a leads to b scenario not the other way around this leads into my first point of what i believe is so brutal about the hype pill because most women will have a standard where you as a guy can be preemptively rejected without being given a chance as you don't meet her minimum height threshold i've shown this chart before which plots the heights at which a man will get rejected based on his height alone excluding other factors and looking at a few crucial points you're mostly safe if your average height in a western country 510 where the rejection rate is only fifteen percent but this figure plummets to fifty percent from losing just two inches for five for eight guys five foot six is even worse where a staggering 75 percent of girls will have already rejected a man solely based on his height lastly at 5'4 an insane 90 of women will reject a man purely based on his height following from this this is why in my opinion one of if not the biggest misconception people have about modern dating is that guys get to choose who they date it seems a lot of people incorrectly believe guys have the power and freedom of choice this is false men don't choose women choose how can people say men choose when the majority of guys don't have any options let alone a few most average guys get only a handful of matches on tinder while nearly all women get hundreds if not thousands the reality is men don't choose men don't choose men offer then a woman gets to decide if she wants to accept that offer so taking it back to the point about preemptive height rejections guys who say things like oh i've dodged a bullet here are almost definitely coping as quite simply they're ignoring the bitter truth that women generally won't care about a man's personality until after they've shown they value his looks again it's a case of a leads-to-be not the other way round and even then if a man still chooses to delude himself into coping with phrases like i don't want her anyway the fact remains there will always be plenty more guys to take his place in an instant as i was scrolling for the comments of that first clip it literally took me another five seconds to find dozens of other male simps telling her she's beautiful and gorgeous and how they're also over six foot this is how long it takes for you to get replaced as a man just five seconds if you don't meet a woman's height requirements there will be plenty of others that will finally i did a little deeper digging and i found out through this girl's tik tok page she also hasn't only fans this is probably what's most sad about the dating market right now i guarantee there will be guys out there who are feeling sorry for themselves about being rejected by women and not even just because of their height this can be about anything at this point and these guys will leave bitter and angry comments like the ones i've already shown then some of those same guys will also be fueling the problem and actually making things worse by subscribing to these girls only fans if you're one of these guys you're only contradicting yourself i'm going to move on to four anecdotes now showing the impact height has on your dating life two of which are coming from my own life this first was sent to me just a couple days ago so i came across this image and i couldn't believe how accurately it depicts and simplifies the current state of the dating market there's something well known within this community referred as the 80 20 rule which states simply that in today's dating eighty percent of women want only the top twenty percent of men so basically the majority of lower guys are left out now twenty percent is equivalent to one in five there are five guys here so i want you to tell me in the comments which man one two three four or five eighty percent of women will choose based on the 80 20 rule you'd be correct if you chose man five i'm joking quite obviously most women are choosing man four it's not even close and what's more interesting is this man isn't even a proper chad man 4 is around a 6 or 7 facially however it's clear his height and frame easily brings him up to about an 8 out of 10 overall for the other guys though they're all lagging way behind in one or more ways man one and three would be second picks in the eyes of women they both have average to slightly above average faces average height average frame so would be approximately a 5 out of 10 overall it's worth noting though man one might be starting to bald he's tilting his head back for the camera which i've seen guys do before to take attention away from their receding hairline i'm not 100 certain on this point but i think it's still worth mentioning finally guys two and five are quite obviously way behind the others they're both noticeably overweight average height their body fat percentage is also bringing their face down by at least two three points not much else to say here for these two overall about a four but tying it back to the 80 20 rule i believe for a group of five girls four of them would choose man four the last one may go for either man one or three i'd be shocked if any of them went against this and chose man two or five here's my second anecdote this one is one of my own i also want to say this experience actually made me question myself what i thought about the importance of heights for guys in my most recent live stream with hamza i said when we was talking about heights it's not nearly as relevant as having an attractive face and as long as you're five eight five nine that's enough height and it becomes more about your face after that well guys what i can tell you no more than two weeks after that live stream is boy was i wrong so at a night club me and my friend saw this guy who was at best a 4 out of 10 in the face there's no other words to describe other than he looked like a grizzly bear however he was a giant i'd say at least in the 6 6 to 6 foot 7 range easily three inches taller than the second tallest guy in the club and here's the kicker within about 45 minutes i saw he made out with not one but two different girls both hot both highly attractive and the only thing i had to think about after this is clearly this didn't happen as a result of game or skill literally anyone who's been to a club in the uk knows you can't get a word in edgeways over the ridiculously loud music in fact i doubt he even knew these girls names before making out with them anyway to get back to the point in my opinion for guys it can seriously be a case where as long as you're tall enough it doesn't matter if your face is normative or even a little below normy tier because it gets to a point where your height just carries you especially in an environment like a nightclub where everyone's standing up and the lighting is pretty poor so attention is taken away from people's faces here's my next anecdote this one again from my own life i'll never forget a girl i've once dated used to play table tennis there was a good mix of both men and women at her club and one time she came back from a training session and she told me about the general difference in behaviour she noticed between all the short guys compared to the tall guys she said whenever her ball bounced away from the table and someone picked it up to give it back to her if the guy was tall he wasn't complicated about it he'd just give it straight back to her meanwhile if the guy was short he would try jester maxing his way to returning the ball playing stupid games for example a short guy would say ah you have to guess which one is yours first before he gave it back hearing this honestly made me cringe i didn't know whether to laugh or cry at just how pathetic a guy has to be to do this why did the short guys feel a need to make jokes and play stupid games instead of just acting normal it's like they're trying to make up for their height anyway now moving on to the final anecdote this one is so brutal i've saved it right for the end this was posted to reddit by a man who's 23 years old and been married for nearly one of the four years he's been together with his wife the main highlight is on this line here she asks him with all of the problems you've had with your height maybe we should think about getting a sperm donor guys i am flabbergasted this more or less sums up the worst issues you may face as a shorter guy because here's the thing i often hear guys saying things like oh but i know a guy who's short he has no problems attracting women he's got a girlfriend right now okay i'll give credit these examples do happen they are rare but they do happen occasionally however what you never see in these cases is what's happening on the inside because chances are a woman who's in a relationship with a short guy knows she's in a relationship with a short guy and this can affect the relationship quality this 2013 study highlights women are most happy with their partners if the guy is 21 centimeters taller or roughly seven to eight inches than themselves this study also shows short guys are over twice as likely to be bullied in school than average height guys or above the study showed the rate of bullying was 46 for the short males but only 21 for non-short males this leads into my final point because i often hear content creators talking about how for guys having the right mindset is key to increasing your chances in dating well based on this study how is a man supposed to have a healthy mindset when traumatic experiences in his upbringing may be affecting that which is stemming from a factor height guys mostly can't control therefore even if mindset does play a large role of being successful in dating and relationships as a man then surely height is still going to be a big part of that anyway guys that's the video if you have anything to say about these four anecdotes leave a comment and like the video as it helps the youtube algorithm