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Interview with The Wizard Liz

May 15, 2024

Interview with The Wizard Liz

Introduction

  • Interviewee: The Wizard Liz
  • Platforms: TikTok, Instagram, YouTube
  • Follower count: Over 10 million
  • Content: Advice on becoming one's best self

Childhood and Immigration

  • Immigrated to Europe at 1 year old due to war
  • Parents' struggles due to starting from scratch
    • Mental struggles, especially mother's depression
    • Attempts to hide financial struggles from Liz
  • Childhood realization of financial struggles
    • Desire to become wealthy to fix problems

Early Sense of Responsibility

  • At 12, wanted to work to help family financially
  • Realization of poverty through luxuries like food and carnival outfits
  • Early memories of trying to build a house from sticks

School Experience

  • Bullied at school, became class clown for acceptance
  • No real friends, just peers taking advantage
  • Disconnected from reality due to abusive household
  • Finding peace in isolation

Abuse and its Impact

  • Earliest memory of abuse: beaten with electrical cord at 3 years old
  • Normalization of abuse, thought it was common
  • Realized the abnormality of her abuse only 3 years ago
    • Ex-boyfriend's perspective provided sanity
    • Advocates for finding people with non-abusive backgrounds for perspective
  • Emotional and physical abuse towards siblings and mom
    • Felt helpless and protective, especially of her mother

Love and Gratitude for Mother

  • Deep love for her mother, who represents strength
  • Mother's resilience through multiple hardships: war, discrimination, abusive husband, raising disabled child
  • Liz’s goal since childhood: financially support her mother

Psychological Aftermath

  • Depression perceived as normal; lives to not be sad
  • Feels normal is sadness, tries to accept it rather than strive for happiness
  • Comfort can lead to lack of motivation and overthinking

Coping Strategies

  • Looks in the mirror to motivate herself
  • Advises others to examine their daily lives and sense of purpose
  • Importance of staying busy to avoid overthinking and depression

Social Media Impact

  • Liz wanted to help people since a young age
  • Unexpectedly gained millions of followers
  • Positive feedback from fans motivates her to continue
  • Example: A fan saying Liz's videos saved her life

Criticism and Self-Perception

  • Accusations of narcissism and being self-centered
  • Attributes this to societal discomfort with self-love
  • Clarifies her message about healthy boundaries and self-care
  • Embraces balance between positive and negative feedback

Public Persona

  • Discomfort with fame; tendency to avoid public interaction
  • Continued childhood trait of trusting easily
  • Dependence on people around her who are more skeptical
  • Fans see only part of her personality

Purpose and Future

  • Purpose: Live best life and help others realize they can do the same
  • Fulfillment through helping others via content creation
  • Future outlook: Believes she will achieve great things

Conclusion

  • Gratitude for opportunity to share her story
  • Anticipation for her future achievements