Lecture on Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)

Introduction

• Personal anecdote about discovering a mite in pubic hair.
• Lack of sex education at home; minimal discussion with stepmother.

Personal Experiences with STIs

• STI Diagnoses:
  • Pubic lice discovered unexpectedly.
  • Gonorrhea contracted from a partner met on Tinder.
  • Syphilis diagnosed after a breakup and a new partner.
  • Chlamydia diagnosis led to panic due to drastic education received in schools.
  • HIV diagnosis received in 2011, major impact on mental health.
  • Trichomoniasis symptoms included discomfort and changes in genitals.

Emotional Reactions to Diagnosis

• Reactions included sadness, depression, and panic.
• Relief that treatment was possible.
• Irritation from contracting STIs from consistent partners rather than one-time encounters.
• Feelings of shame, embarrassment, and fear.

Communication with Friends and Family

• Some individuals chose to tell family and friends for support.
• Others kept their diagnosis private, especially with family.
• Friends often provided practical advice, like informing past partners.

Disclosing STIs to Partners

• Importance of immediate disclosure to partners noted.
• Positive reactions often received after honest discussions.
• Antibiotics can cure many STIs, but discussions about safety prior to sexual activity are crucial.

Lying About STIs

• Majority of individuals did not lie about having an STI.
• Acknowledgment of the importance of honest sexual history.
• Some regret over past behavior, such as lying about safe sex practices.

Concerns About Mortality

• Immediate fears often alleviated by healthcare professionals.
• Awareness of serious consequences of untreated STIs, like syphilis affecting the brain.
• Continuous medication for chronic conditions like HIV.

Anger and Forgiveness Toward Partners

• Initial anger towards partners who transmitted STIs.
• Mixed feelings of anger and self-blame for unprotected sex.
• Some partners did not disclose their STI status, leading to feelings of betrayal.
• Over time, many individuals found ways to forgive and move on.

Overall Lessons and Reflections

• Increased frequency of STI testing and use of condoms post-diagnosis.
• Realization of the importance of sexual health education and stigma reduction.
• Recognition of the importance of choice and consent in sexual relationships.
• Encouragement to handle STI disclosure with honesty and responsibility.