How to Get Your Ex Back Fast

Introduction

• Presenter: Alex Camont, Relationship Expert
• Platform: Love Advice TV
• Common Question: How to get your ex back quickly
• Objective: Provide actionable solutions and strategies to re-attract an ex.

Key Points

Reality Check

• Main Assertion: It's not possible to get your ex back immediately because they chose to leave.
• Problem: Most people try to offer past experiences, which the ex does not want.
• Solution: Focus on re-attracting the ex rather than getting them back.

Reverse Psychology

• Strategy: Use reverse psychology to plant the idea that you’ve changed.
• Example: Instead of saying "I have changed," say "You know that I have changed."
• Outcome: This approach makes the ex feel like they already know and acknowledge your changes.

Scientific Insights

• Fear of Loss: People fear losing what they own, including your love.
• Memories and Feelings: Humans cannot forget their feelings and memories.
• Implication: These inherent traits can be leveraged to rekindle interest.

Actionable Steps

Focus on the Future

• Strategy: Create a "foreseeable future" where you paint a positive and exciting vision of the future.
• Goal: Make the ex see that coming back is for something new and better, not repeating the past.

Avoid Mistakes

• Common Mistakes: Asking the ex to go out, expressing love too soon, being needy, and valuing the past.
• Effect: These actions reset progress and maintain an image of neediness.

Communication

• Initial Steps: Start with reconnection, chemistry, and communication.
• Progression: Gradually build up towards more in-depth conversations about your changes and future plans.
• Important: Avoid skipping steps and moving too fast.

Audience Questions and Answers

On Ghosting

• Question: What to do if ex ghosted me for months?
• Advice: Take actions to regain value and reverse the situation.

On Sending Letters

• Question: Should I ask if my ex received my letter?
• Advice: Wait for her to respond; asking diminishes the letter's value.

On New Relationships

• Question: What if my ex has new friends or relationships?
• Advice: Show you are engaging in new activities and emotions too.

On Mixed Signals

• Question: My ex wants to be friends but says they love me.
• Advice: Stop being overly nice and put yourself on a pedestal.

Final Recommendations

• Mindset: Stay positive and focus on rebuilding your personal life.
• Understanding: Recognize that exes may seek attention for validation, not genuine reconciliation.
• Take Control: Use reverse psychology to regain control and show understanding of their emotions.

Additional Resources

• Free Gift: Videos with Coach Adrian on how to apply these tips and avoid common mistakes.
• Website: WithMyExAgain.com for private coaching sessions.
• Conclusion: Re-attracting an ex is about creating a new and enticing future, not reliving the past.