how to get my ex back and how to do it fast hello guys and welcome to love advice TV my name is Alex camont I am your relationship expert and in this video I would like to address the question that we receive all the time via email on Instagram on Facebook it is always how can I get my ex fast how can I get my ex back very fast because you're looking for Solutions you're looking for actions you're looking for basically the the game playing what can you do now and today to get the one you love back and to stop to stop suffering from the situation to stop experiencing this breakup which is one of the most difficult moments in someone's life and you know what guys I completely get it I know it's not easy and I know that you want to get the best of your situation I am doing this live today because I want you to think differently what do I mean by that if I'm truly honest with you hello Omar Sula not Janet full I'm so amazed for you being here on this channel make sure that you smash the like button and you subscribe on love advice TV but if I'm truly honest with you guys it is not possible listen to that it is not possible to get your ex back because your ex doesn't want to come back in a situation that they decided they want to live and that is the reason why maybe 90 of the people will not be able to do the breakup recovery process they will not be able to reattract their ex it's because what they sell meanings what they want to offer to their EX it is the past and your ex decided that they don't want it they don't want to expand the past again so why would you give value to Memories past relationship past moments past experience that your ex doesn't want to hear about and that is the situation that you are in you want to get your ex back you talk about love you talk about feelings you talk about the relationship but your ex doesn't want to talk about that so that's why I'm telling you that getting back with the next he's a huge mistake and he had love advice TV with Coach Adrian coach Abby Coach Danny myself coach Priyanka we are a team of professional it means that every single day we are thinking about Solutions and actions and what can you do to make your ex react to make your ex feel attracted towards you to make your ex listen to the way you have changed and that is the huge difference instead of getting back with an ex and putting pressure we will be able to re-attract your ex we will be about to show to your ex that you have changed number one tool you need to use number one tool you need to use guys it is the reverse psychology so so far you were telling your ex I love you I have changed please come back when I use the reverse psychology I want you to say these words instead of I have changed you will just change and say you know that I have changed if you tell your ex you know that I have changed it is the reverse psychology because we are planting a seed in their mind where we are telling them that they already know that you're different and if they say yes to that which is the case in 99 of the situation so they will approve what you say they will trust you again they will listen to you more and the reverse psychology will help you make your ex wants to talk to you not just pushing you away taking you guilty for the past not wanting to be closer to you and you know you just have to change instead of saying I have changed you just have to say you know that I have changed you feel that there is something different by using you at the beginning of this sentence this is what's called the reverse psychology and when you use that and of course that you have changed it's not magical it's not just use this word and then it's okay your ex will love you forever no it's just a tool to help your ex feel that you're different and there is three steps or tips that I wanted to tell you today okay and I will explain to you why is it possible not to get your ex back because we talk about that in the beginning of this life make sure you smash the like button and subscribe if you didn't subscribe already but we talk about not getting back with the next we talk about re-attracting the X opening a new page right instead of looking at the past looking at the memories looking at what you have experienced both of you and people are telling me but Alex is it really possible to get someone to love me again yes because when I looked at a book called persuasion from Robert sandini is a really famous psychologist in the U.S he just gave us some scientific case studies number one every human being will have the fear to lose what they own and so in other words your ex will never accept to lose your love Your Love they own it the moment you stop giving love giving attention the moment you start to become a new version of yourself guys your ex will respect you more your ex will listen to you more and your ex will feel some love again why scientific case study number two because as a human being we can't we can't we cannot forget our feelings we cannot forget our memories we cannot forget our past so yes there is new emotions and these new emotions are not in your favor they are negative and your ex is closed mind but under these emotions you have the love you have the feelings you have the needs you have the wish and I can guarantee you that your acts deeply inside they still love you but the problem is that so much negative emotions are killing the attraction and are pushing your ex to go away but just because your ex is a human being they will Fear To Lose Your Love they will not forget their past it is not possible so the question is how can we use these two things to create something that will be even better than the past and it's called the previous it's called the future right so if you can just focus on that if you can be yourself if you can just be you know more positive about yourself and if you can just so it's called the foreseeable suture for civil suture when you will just look at the future right so if you can focus and create a foreseeable future your ex will understand that if they come back with you it is for this new page it is for something different it is for something with more excitement okay so let me put you in the chat what is very important for me okay it is the foreseeable future so every time you talk about your goals every time you talk about your dreams every time you talk about what is important for you ux will project themselves in your life did you see how we reverse the situation instead of going into their life instead of going into the past no we are moving forward and we bring your ex into your life because you have goals because you have expectation because you want to do things and just by understanding that you will see that your ex will listen to you more the big problem is that every time you do one mistake you can have restart to zero every time you do a mistake in the process of getting back with someone you're restarting from zero so it's not easy emotionally it's not what you want to do but we have no choice here okay so if you really want to get your ex back you need to understand the rules of the real attraction you need to make your ex look at you differently you need to use all the tools that are here to help you and if you click in the chat just write now or in the description just write below if you click in the description you have a free gift you just click on it we have several videos with Coach Adrian just to tell you guys how important it is for you to apply these tips and to avoid the mistakes if you continue to ask your ex to go out if they love you if you continue to harvest your ex if you continue to be needy if you continue to give value to the Past one more time the past that they decided to leave you will always be the needy person you will always be the one that is taking for granted and of course it's not what I want for you okay so Jamie's thing but Alex it costed me for more than three months now I really don't know if it's still possible that he comes back it will not come back by himself so I want you now Jamie to do actions that will allow you to regain value okay and so if you click in the description and you get your gift we will teach you how to reverse the situation someone that ghosted you break up recovery process there is something in the middle reconnection communication chemistry talking to each other when you have that you will be able to move to the next step but don't skip that step don't go too fast okay guys that's very important for me if you have any question make sure that you ask them in the comments Omar should I ask or don't and wait for her to get the letter you need to wait for her because if you ask if she received the letter if she likes the letter if you ask anything about the letter before you're kind of destroying the value of the letter there is no point to send a letter if you can do a little distance before if you can't focus on yourself before okay so use her Alex he made a new friend and I think that it's because of her that is not coming back in the relationship so use her when I hear that what I hear is that he wants new he wants new activity new friends new emotions so this guy will not come back forget about the past but it will be very looking at are you meeting new friends are you doing new actions are you doing things that you love how can you show that you have the same vision right now which is this new page in your personal life with new emotions and new things because when you see that your ex is trying to do new things your ex is hungry at life he wants to enjoy and you know what with this special gift you have in the description I can guarantee you that you will be about to look at it differently because now you're a little bit too needy we want to change that we want to regain some control okay J so my ex just broke up with reborn and now he's contacting me wanting to be friends I don't want to be friends that is the reason why you need to show to your ex that you're not having you're not being friend but your life is just better than her life and so when you realize that Jay it will change everything your ex is coming to you and when your ex is telling you I want to be friends the reality is what they want to keep you on the side they want to keep control of the situation right we want to avoid this how do we do that I told you they will be looking at the foresible future the more you can show them that your life will be here not here not at the bottom on top then we want to spend more time with you but if you give them the attention when they want it they will just take you for granted Okay so in other words when your ex wants to be friend it is to keep control so you respond just by showing how amazing your life is don't ask them questions don't be friend just talk about your life I know it's counter-intuitive we don't like to talk about us but this is what will make your ex listen to you and see that if they come back with you they will be able to enjoy every single day okay so that's where we are going English news I love the I love your profile name I just texted my ex after months after breaking up with him in the spring how long should I expect to hear back from him if we end up on emotional terms I know it's a long distance relationship but you know what it's great that you're reconnecting and I will use the holidays to touch like two good friends like two old good friends you will see that you don't need to do a longer no contact when you are in a long distance relationship the only one thing we knew we need to do is good is getting one reaction from him one response when we have the response we can build on that but before that remember to not skip some steps don't think about love and relationship right now it will be too much okay Maji from Facebook my friend said he loves me but he says he wants me only as a friend so if you if you're fine is telling you mix signals in a sense or if your ex is telling you mixed signals they only want to see you as a challenge it's because these people are a little bit of avoidant and Sensational they want someone on the top I can love someone but see you as a friend because you're too nice so stop being nice put yourself on a pedestal okay that would be something that would be very very very important thank you Marina watching this from Lebanon tell me where do you watch this guys and please don't spam the chat Albert what do you think if she is testing me okay I'm not sure to understand your story buddy okay bonjour hello buddy so my ex are crazy with me and asked me to forget about her and I pushed her away so yes this is the thing guys you need to understand one thing I know it sounds terrible but some exes their goal is to get your attention so they will go crazy they will do things that you will not understand just because they want to catch your attention just because they want to feel that you will basically give them the love and when they receive this attention and the love they disappear and they come back and they disappear and they come back what are they looking for they are really looking for reinsurance they want to make it they want to make themselves better what are we looking for we are looking for the reverse psychology we are looking to tell them look I know what you're doing you come here to get my attention because you make you feel good but in reality you're not happy in your life I'm sorry for you using the reverbs psychology means you can read their mind hey if you can read their mind what's going on you will get results because they will feel that you're different and they will feel that you're using the tools that I'm providing in this free gift that you can find in the description make them feel different to make them feel that you will be also the one providing for new attention okay guys so what am I telling you here when they come to you don't give them attention show them that you know what they are looking for and that you feel sad for them so you will regain control you will regain value and you will be the one getting the results here okay so it's all about you being in this positive mindset so remember what we have seen in this video number one every human being has the fear to lose what they own and your eyes think that they own Your Love number two nobody can forget their past and their feelings they are still here but we need to recreate attraction how do we create attraction with the foreseeable future if you show to your ex how you can visualize your life they will feel it and they would want to be part of this okay so I'm so happy to be your coach you can come on with myx again.com with myx again.com you can book a private coaching session with me and we will do something that would make your ex wants to be back with you and this is the beauty of the process we can save the love between the two of you but you have to accept that if you do one mistake you will restart from zero and Aden is asking Alex shouldn't you be rude yeah it's not about being rude it's about showing them that you understand their emotions it's about showing them that they cannot come and get your energy and leave and take your energy and leave it's not about being rude it's about showing them that you can understand their emotions and that you are one step ahead because you decided to rebuild your personal life okay guys so I want you to do that remember to get your free gift in the description box right below we have a lot of resources here at love advice TV the website is with my ex again.com coaching if you want me and you to have a chat it is private confidential and every time we talk I can guarantee you you get results yes it is possible okay guys so don't stay in the mindset that you lost your ex we create something new and different they are looking for new emotions not for the past that is the huge mistake that I've seen over and over okay I will see you by next week still at 1 30 p.m eastern time okay guys I see you soon please take good care of yourself and if you need anything just grab your free gift and you can communicate by email with us okay a good care guys talk to you soon