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Flirting Techniques from Lecture
Jul 24, 2024
Flirting Techniques Overview
Introduction
Importance of flirting in dating
Three flirting techniques to create powerful results with women
Technique 1: Contextual Flirt
Definition
: Mentioning that you noticed the girl while going about your day.
Application
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Example: "Hey excuse me, I just saw you walking by and thought you looked cute."
Variations can include specifics about the girl (e.g., outfit).
Key Points
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Use multiple instances of flirtation throughout the interaction.
Balance between overt compliments and casual conversation.
Technique 2: Assumptive Tease
Definition
: Make playful observations and assumptions about the girl.
Application
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Example: "I don’t know, you don’t strike me as a city girl."
Use playful teasing to create a fun atmosphere.
Key Points
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Flirtation shouldn’t rely solely on direct compliments.
Combine observations about the girl with playful teasing about her persona.
Technique 3: The Downplay
Definition
: Flirting while suggesting a casual date without causing pressure.
Application
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Start with exaggerated ideas (jokingly) and then propose something low-key (like coffee or drinks).
Example: "You need to take me to Italy. Oh wait, let's just get a drink first."
Key Points
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Using humor to present a request while transforming it into a more relaxed proposal.
Less pressure leads to more acceptance of the date suggestion.
General Tips for Flirting
Tailor interactions to the individual girl.
Use humor and playfulness to maintain a light-hearted vibe.
Aim for a natural delivery of flirtation to avoid sounding scripted.
Conclusion
Confidence and social skills can be improved with practice.
For personalized coaching, there are opportunities available.
Call to Action
Links in description for those wanting to enhance their social confidence and dating skills.
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