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Flirting Techniques from Lecture

it is going green I don't know how I feel about that it's just if we hang out again but next time they got to go Blue okay you're new to the area I'm new to the area we're both in our 30s we're both attractive [ __ ] what should we do I feel like I feel like two Attractive people in the 30s that are new to the area I feel like we should hang out or something maybe yeah that sounds that sounds smart sounds smart yeah I'm smart I think you're smart too you seem pretty intelligent I think that's why I like your Vibe like you're you're cute but like you're mature too and professional hey excuse me hi what's up I I just saw you walking by I thought you look super cute I just wanted to come over and say what's up really quick what's this the tinsil oh you like embedded it in there yeah okay cool it's cute though right maybe that's what caught my eye I was walk I was walking by and you were like shiny no that's not what it was I just thought you look cute honestly why don't don't we just like exchange numbers you down to hang out sometime yeah 100% cool let's do it give me your number in today's video I want to break down three different flirting techniques that I consistently use to create a really powerful result with women I'm going to show you multiple clips for each technique that way you could see a variety of different ways that these techniques can be implemented and the final technique number three is also a subtle way to ask the girl out on a date simultaneously so let's get into technique number one which is the contextual flirt this technique is really powerful because you can use this in any interaction so it is very versatile and I'll show you a couple different ways that you could use it but understand on a more simplistic level it's essentially just explaining to the girl that you just saw her walking by or you just saw her while you were going about your day and you thought she looked really cute hey excuse me hi what's up I I just saw you walking by I thought you look super cute I just wanted to come over and say what's up really quick now depending on the girl you can also add in more specific things about her to make this line more unique so let me show you guys a couple different ways I do this hey excuse me excuse me hi I actually just saw you walking by I thought you look really good in the all black just want to say what's up hey what's up what's going on what's this the T so I did like it's still in your from a week ago it's not a week ago it was uh Sunday 6 days ago whatever yeah okay yeah it's like stuck in my hair oh you like embedded it in there yeah okay cool it's cute though right maybe that's what caught my eye I was walk I was walking by and you were like shiny no that's not what it was I just thought you look cute honestly I can't dance good either it's okay no judgment are you going to dance will you dance with me I get so shy I'm like I I don't know no I'm there like staring at yeah I saw you I was over there I saw you watching I was like oh she's cute so I was I was just coming over to say what's up yeah here yeah so I just showed you guys a variety of different clips of me injecting this concept into the middle of the interaction and that's why it's so powerful is because you can technically open with this line of hey I just saw you walking by I thought you looked really cute but you can always say it again in the middle of the interaction I actually just saw you walking by I thought you looked really good in the all black I thought you looked cute that's why I was like you know what just me say what's up really quick guys think that you just need to open and you just say the line and then you just have small tall conversation it's like no there should actually be multiple instances throughout the interaction of you injecting some level of flirtatiousness I just saw you walking by I thought you look super cute I just wanted to come over and say what's up really quick cool it's cute though right maybe that's what caught my eye I was walk I was walking by and you were like shiny no that's not what it was I just thought you look cute honestly so now let's move into technique number two which is the assumptive tease now this is essentially just pointing out things about the girl and drawing conclusions about them or making teases about them in a playful teasing slightly flirtatious manner I just love New York I don't know you don't strike me as like a city girl not like New York City girl I'm going to you took offense to that why you take offense to that I don't know if you give off party Vib I feel like if I brought you out to a party you'd be like quiet at first and then like couple shots you'd be [ __ ] now notice in this clip that I just showed you I'm not actually telling the girl I think you're cute you don't need to say I think you're cute I think you're really attractive every time that you're flirting that is something that should just happen maybe one two no more than like three times over the course of an interaction but that's not the only way to flirt that is an essential part of it that I think at some point you should convey to the girl you think she's attractive but then there should also be these other kind of playful or teasing or slightly flirtatious instances that also happen in interaction where you don't call her cute I just love newk I don't know you don't strike me as like a city girl not like New York City girl I'm you took offense to that why you take offense to that so notice in the one I just showed you it's a little bit more of a playful interaction the girl's like Point putting her finger up in my face and I was like oh I was like oh you took offense to that didn't you or you seem like the type of girl that would be like blank so that is another form of teasing or flirting that when stacked on top of technique number one can become really powerful let me show you guys a slightly different variation of this too of me making observations about the girl and that leads to assumptions and that also stacks on to a little bit more flirtatiousness which looks like this you look young too then see I would I probably would have guessed like 25 26 oh man I like you you're nice you're doing are we going to be friends that's funny that's what's up so you're new to the the area M I'm new to the area we're both in our 30s we're both attractive [ __ ] what should we do I feel like I feel like two Attractive people in the 30s that are new to the area I feel like we should hang out or something maybe yeah that's some that sounds smart sounds smart yeah I'm smart I think you're smart too you seem pretty intelligent actually I think that's why I like your Vibe like you're you're cute but like you're mature too and professional I pointed out multiple things about the girl I made observ about her age the fact that she seems like fun the fact that she's smart I also implied that we're both attractive and then I even said later on see it's cuz you're cute but you're also intelligent and so I stacked on a bunch of different flirting techniques but I still tailored it to the specific girl in front of me and that's ideally the level I want you guys to get to cuz at first you are just going to say these more generic basic canned flirting phrases but over time you want to be able to take those phrases and make them more tailored or specific to the girl in front of you it's going to come off less gamey a lot more natural and it's going to hit a lot harder when it's delivered properly to that girl you look young too then see I would I probably would have guessed like 25 26 man active [ __ ] what should we do I feel like I feel like two Attractive people in the 30s that are new to the area I feel like we should hang out or something maybe yeah that's some that sounds smart sounds smart yeah I'm smart I think you're smart too you seem pretty pretty intelligent I think that's why I like your Vibe like you're you're cute but like you're mature too and professional quickly guys if you want to work with me directly to level up these areas of your life click the link in description fill out an application for an opportunity to work with me personally and now let's move into technique number three which is a concept I didn't really study or learn anywhere it was something I actually just noticed myself doing naturally in a lot of different interactions so I'm going to call this one the downplay and essentially it's a way to flirt while simultaneously asking the girl out on a date without putting a lot of pressure on the situation which is why I think it's so powerful nobody ever knows where that is it's very nice very nice I've never been you need to go you need to go I don't want to go alone I need a cute Italian girl to like show me the way you know when are we going you come with me don't lie to me don't don't don't lie to me who knows maybe this summer this summer yeah maybe that's kind of far but I mean I I can't Mo right now well let's see like maybe we hang out one time see how that goes and then then we make a decision from there okay at least at least one time we yeah I can't go to Italy with you right now we got to slow down you know I think you're cute like we can hang out maybe get a drink or something so what do you like what do you like to do I want to explain why this is so powerful and it's because number one I take an idea that me and the girl are talking about and I exaggerate it to a crazy amount to the point where it it's obviously a joke it's obviously silly like in this clip we're talking about Italy and she said you got to go and I said you're going to take me and like we're talking about this idea that we're going to go on a vacation obviously we're not going on a vacation so it's not a serious idea so by bringing up the idea of me and the girl doing something that's obviously a joke it allows me to get away with presenting the idea because it it's clearly a joke however it still does make the conversation about me and the girl hypothetically doing this activity together and since that's a joke it's an accepted frame I need a cute Italian girl to like show me the way you know when are we going you come with me don't lie to me don't don't don't lie to me now once the girl laugh about that I then downplay the whole idea to say maybe we should start with something a little bit more lowkey you know like just have a drink or a coffee just to see if we Vibe and since it was so exaggerated which is clearly a joke and then I drop it down to something lowkey like a drink or a coffee it's an acceptable offer because it it doesn't seem like a big deal in comparison well I mean I I can't move right now well let's see like maybe we hang out one time see how that goes and then then we make a decision from there okay at least at least one time yeah I can't go to Italy with you right now we got to slow down you know I think you're cute like we can hang out maybe get a drink or something so what do you now most dudes they put a lot of [ __ ] pressure on the idea of going on the date for the drink and when it's a really big deal and you present it in a weird way where it's a high pressure situation the girls be like I'm I'm good but when you exaggerate the thing and then downplay it to something lowkey like a drink or a coffee it's now an acceptable frame and that doesn't mean I even need to invite her to do that in that moment it I just get her to agree to do that and then later on in the interaction I can resolidify the plan I'm super big into like morning routine and stuff like that too so well what's your morning routine walk me through it walk you through it then you want the whole rundown I want the whole rundown this is moving fast I don't know if I can reveal all of that I was thinking you know we hang out we get a drink like you know we start slow why don't why don't we just like exchange numbers you down to hang out sometime yeah 100% cool let's do it give me your number did you get my tax I don't know I saw it went green that's weird no I can't it's my data oh yeah are your messages going to go green let me see for now they will e it is going green I don't know how I feel about that it's just if we hang out but next time they got to go Blue okay that's a couple more subtle variations to it okay you don't always need to exaggerate into some crazy thing it can just be okay what if we if we are going to hang out again then it's got to be like this it is going green I don't know how I feel about that it's just if we hang out again but next time they got to go Blue okay okay or in the first variation it was like wo I don't know if I can reveal all of that right now we should take things slow I was thinking about maybe we just start with like a coffee or a drink just to see if we Vibe and then we could take it from there all right so those are three different ways that you could implement this concept to start to move the interaction towards the idea of you and the girl hanging out on a date without putting pressure on her okay so if you guys enjoyed these Concepts and you want to level up these areas of your life you want to get more social confidence you want to get more women more dates I can help you with that links in the description fill out an application for an opportunity to work with me personally that's all for this video guys peace out