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How does 1 Thessalonians 4:13 suggest Christians should approach grief?
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With hope, as it states, 'We grieve not as those who have no hope.'
What does 'taking that person off your hook and putting them on God’s hook' mean?
It means letting go of the desire for personal retribution and trusting that God will handle justice.
What is the importance of managing anger when dealing with grief, according to Jim Cress?
Managing anger healthily is crucial to moving forward and not letting it control one's actions.
What kind of support does Jim Cress recommend when grieving a relationship?
Seeking support from counselors, friends, or pastors and having conversations, not just journaling.
What question does Jim Cress emphasize at the beginning of the lecture?
"How are you doing today?"
What advice does Jim Cress give for dealing with betrayal and feelings of wasted years?
Trust that God does not waste wounds and remember Galatians 6:7: 'God is not mocked…'
What is meant by 'revisionist history' in the context of grieving relationships?
It involves assessing the reality of the relationship and identifying lies, omissions, and gaslighting.
Why does Jim Cress emphasize not owning others' sinful behaviors?
Because self-reflection and focusing on one's own healing are more productive.
What is the purpose of creating a sacred space for grieving, as mentioned by Jim Cress?
To process pain, engage with God, journal, and have conversations for clarity.
Why does Jim Cress argue that grief is beneficial despite seeming like an enemy?
Because it helps individuals process and work through their losses.
What emotion is often a prominent stage of grief and how can it manifest?
Anger, which can be directed at God, oneself, or others.
How does Jim Cress suggest viewing grief to promote healing?
As a friend rather than an enemy
What is essential for mental and spiritual health according to Jim Cress?
A commitment to reality
What phrase does Jim Cress use to describe divorce?
The 'death of a marriage'
How can individuals avoid the 'root of bitterness' mentioned in Hebrews 12:15?
By processing pain and grief instead of letting it fester.
According to Jim Cress, what role does grief play in counseling?
Grief helps process losses and is an integral part of counseling.
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