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Jeremy's Journey to Independence

Sep 3, 2025

Overview

Jeremy, a young man labeled as "without specialty," transitions from assisted care to live with relatives, facing social challenges and discrimination while pursuing a normal job and independence.

Moving Out of Assisted Care

  • Jeremy is thanked for his 21 years in assisted care and is set to move to a new home.
  • He expresses hope for independence, a job, and possibly his own place.

Social Stigma and Labels

  • Society refers to people like Jeremy as "duds" or "without specialty," both carrying negative connotations.
  • Individuals must wear identifying tags in public to signal their status, reinforcing separation.
  • Jeremy is often reminded of his perceived limitations and hears derogatory remarks.

Arrival at Relatives’ House

  • Jeremy moves in with his cousin Kyle's family, encountering mixed reactions.
  • Some family members discourage the use of derogatory terms, while Kyle and others display discomfort and bias.
  • Discussion ensues about labels and whether they're necessary or appropriate.

Attempts at Finding Employment

  • Jeremy expresses a desire to find a "regular" job rather than traditional helper roles.
  • Accompanied by reluctant relatives, he applies at various workplaces.
  • Employers show reluctance or refuse to hire Jeremy, often due to prejudice or business concerns.
  • Jeremy faces patronizing and exclusionary attitudes, even from peers and bystanders.

Interactions with Relatives and Peers

  • Kyle and friends initially view Jeremy as a burden but later attempt to use his presence to appear virtuous.
  • Heidi challenges the status quo, questioning why Jeremy cannot have a normal job and criticizing societal attitudes.

Reflections and Closing Thoughts

  • Jeremy questions why others assume they know what's best for him and asserts his aspirations beyond menial tasks.
  • Despite the disappointing day, family members acknowledge some personal growth and the value of helping others.
  • Jeremy affirms his identity beyond his label, seeking recognition as more than just "without specialty."

Decisions

  • Jeremy will move out of assisted care and attempt to find a job while living with Kyle's family.
  • Family and peers decide to accompany Jeremy on his job search despite reservations.

Action Items

  • TBD – Jeremy: Continue searching for employment opportunities.
  • TBD – Heidi: Challenge derogatory language and support Jeremy’s independence.

Questions / Follow-Ups

  • Will Jeremy eventually find a job outside helper roles?
  • Will family members change their attitudes about labels and Jeremy's capabilities?